Living day to day as a control freak isn’t really hard to do. In fact it’s quite easy to control what you eat, where you go, and what you do. You may even be able to boss around your boyfriend rather easily and get him to do what you want.
But watching a control freak plan a wedding is like seeing how many jellybeans you can fit in your mouth – it’s amusing for a short while, but in the end it’s painful to see and can make you ill. Some women make themselves sick for months when planning their weddings. It starts with the date – everyone seems to think they have a right to an opinion. After much screaming, gnashing of teeth, and a few threats to call the whole thing off, a date is finally agreed upon. Okay, so the date’s set and now you need to move on to the next phase: choosing a reception venue.
Well, that sounds easy doesn’t it? After several trips to the wedding city and looking at various places to satisfy your curiosity (and the belief that the very one you wouldn’t look at would be the perfect one and at the right price) you need to eventually call it quits and make a decision. Then on to choosing all the other details - wedding favors, decorations, cake, menu, bridesmaid dresses, photographer, DJ - oh the list seems endless! And this is when the worrying peaks and becomes very profitable to the makers of heartburn relief medicine. Yes, you reach the worst stage of being a control freak: you literally make yourself sick.
So you need to get some help, and fast! Take a long look at yourself before you hit rock bottom, and admit to yourself that you’re a control freak. Some little known facts about control freaks. It’s not that they’re so self-confident that they believe they’re always right. Instead, they’re paranoid and are convinced that no one has their best interests at heart. So stop the madness and regroup, before you are friendless and lose your beloved from the unnecessary insanity of wedding planning!