 | Are you ready to pop the big question, but you’re worried that your proposal won’t be memorable or romantic? Marriage is a huge step in life, and women place so much importance and emphasis on the how, when, and where of a proposal. Did you get her an engagement gift or an engagement ring she’ll love? Questions like these rack men’s minds when deciding how to propose. It is common for guys to believe that there is only one way to ensure success when proposing: by spending a large amount of money on a lavish dinner, expensive champagne, and a romantic walk or exclusive limo ride. |
Unfortunately this by no means guarantees success; even if she says yes, she may still be disappointed in the method you chose for proposing to her. The classic and unoriginal restaurant proposal can work against your efforts and is definitely not money well spent. There are numerous women who feel that the wedding proposal they received from the man they love was not as romantic and unforgettable as they would have wanted or expected, and they overall are quite disappointed. It is not because the man lacked effort, but because he lacked creativity. This is one of the main reasons that proposals fail to meet women’s high expectations. Typically the best wedding proposals are the least expensive and the most inventive. It has even occurred that some proposals were so creative and successful, that they set the theme for the wedding, decorations, and wedding favors.
Remember that your goal is to sweep her off her feet and surprise her. Do not underestimate the importance of the surprise factor. Although she may know that you want to marry her, the proposal itself should still be a surprise. Of course, before you propose and are on your way to choosing wedding napkins and tablecloths, make sure it is truly something you both want and that you agree on major life issues like jobs, location to live, and children. You do not want to jump the gun and ask too soon, until you’re both ready and have the crucial details ironed out. You do not want a runaway bride and you certainly do not want to be an infamous groom that leaves his bride standing at the altar!