 | Once you’re engaged the question you here most often is “so when’s the big day?" Like Christmas and birthdays, your wedding date will hold a special place in your heart, year after year.
The reality is, until you set a date, all other planning is practically impossible. But beware of selecting the date and time of your wedding without careful thought. |
In selecting your month, ask yourself: What season do I prefer? Or does the season matter? Is there one time of year your family or the groom’s family would find particularly meaningful? Perhaps Christmas has always been special to you, so an early December wedding would fulfill your dreams. As an added benefit, seasonal weddings such as Valentines Day or Halloween can simplify decorating decisions. You can even have your wedding favors match the season or theme you choose.
If saving money is of primary importance, think about having your wedding on a Friday night or Sunday afternoon. Wedding vendors and banquet halls will be much more likely to negotiate the price on any day but Saturday, their busiest day. There is a trade-off, however, as out-of-town guests may find it tougher to attend Friday or Sunday events.
Should you choose a holiday weekend? On the plus side, your guests may appreciate a wedding on a long weekend, since it gives them an extra day for travel time and recuperation. On the other hand, some family members may already have other plans for those special weekends.
Be sure to take weather into consideration. Many a bride has planned an outdoor summer wedding in chilly January, forgetting to take into account that July weather can be unbearably muggy. By now you must be thinking, how can we ever settle on a date? But take heart! You will find a workable day to exchange vows and with a dash of deliberation all your family and friends will be on hand to share your joy.