| A perfect wedding isn’t only beautiful, its personal as well. It has details that have been carefully selected and that are meaningful to you and your fiancé. Whether you do it through unique wedding favors, vows, or flowers, there are some very simple ways to add your own subtle, special touches to your ceremony and reception.
Of course, you can write your own wedding vows. They don’t have to read like poetry; the important thing is that it comes from your own heart. You can simply print them out on an index card and keep the card close by and handy during the ceremony. |
If you have ethnic roots, the think about incorporating a marriage ritual from your culture into your ceremony or even perform it during your reception. You can also wear an heirloom. For example, you can use your grandmother’s veil, or wear a locket that belongs to your mother. This is an excellent way of creating a sense of continuity between generations, celebrating your own family even as you go on to begin your own.
A nice idea is to create a video presentation. Then play it during the last dance of the bride with the father. This can be just a simple montage of childhood photos, and this will be a guaranteed tear-jerker!
Add little elements that say something about your relationship as a couple. For example, if you’re giving away picture frames as wedding favors, insert a poem that you wrote or a copy of your wedding vows. If you met at a beach (and would rather not have a beach-themed wedding) incorporate shells into your table centerpiece. There are many creative ways to add personal and special touches to your wedding, just use your imagination!